Now, for some reason this blog still gets the usual letters from editors/authors/perverts, book related or sex related. Most of them don’t need replies, or need to be ignored. Tonight, however, I got a comment from a lovely Romanian(?) reader, Potenta. (Never seizes to amaze me that you guys are still out there. *sniff*) I’m barely online these days but I know I *HAVE* to do something about this one. Here’s what she wrote:
maybe it’s my genes... :)
I’m a 41 year old woman and althow i enjoy having sex with my housband, i’m disapointed for the fact that i’ve NEVER had an orgasm. I hear that for many women it just comes natural , but sadly it isn’t my case.
Althow i know many women have the same problem, and my comment is of no surpise to anyone, i want to do my best and find a solution.
I’ve been thinking that maybe my housband isn’t as tender and loveable as he should, but curiosity has never pushed me so far as to cheat on him with another man. Should i? Could change be a solution?
I’ve tried all sorts of pills and aphrodisiacs, but nothing so far...
If you have any advise, please reply to this comment. I’ve just started posting for a couple of days, so i’ll be checking in often :)